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3 Truths About Boundaries That Will Set You Free
In my last post, we uncovered three common myths about boundaries that keep many of us stuck in cycles of over-committing and people-pleasing. Now, it’s time to dive into the truth. In this post, I’m sharing 3 powerful truths about boundaries that will help you move past the discomfort, find freedom, and strengthen your relationships. If you’re ready to step into your power and honor your needs, this one’s for you!
3 Myths About Boundaries That Keep People Pleasers Stuck
Struggling to set boundaries? You’re not alone. For people pleasers, boundaries often feel impossible—they require saying 'no' and standing firm, which can bring up fears of upsetting others or being seen as selfish. In this post, we tackle three common myths about boundaries that keep people pleasers stuck and share practical ways to rewrite those narratives. It’s time to start honoring your needs without guilt.
How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Achieve Your Big Dreams
Struggling to make progress on your big dreams? Limiting beliefs might be holding you back. In this post, learn how to identify and overcome those hidden mental blocks with a simple, guided exercise. Use my free Google Doc template, complete with examples, to start rewriting your narrative and unlocking your full potential today!
5 Things I Stopped Doing to Protect My Mindset and Improve My Well-Being
Discover the 5 things I stopped doing to protect my mindset and improve my well-being. From cutting back on negative influences like the news and true crime to prioritizing sleep and ditching alcohol, this post explores actionable changes that can help you create a more positive and intentional life.
The Pendulum of Personal Change
Breaking free from people-pleasing often feels like swinging between extremes—saying yes to everything or no to everyone. In this post, I explore the concept of the pendulum, sharing actionable steps like checking in with yourself, giving yourself permission, letting go of perfection, and embracing the process of progress over perfection. Learn how to navigate personal change and prioritize yourself without guilt.
Why Do We People-Please? Digging Deeper Into the “Why”
People-pleasing doesn’t come from nowhere—it’s shaped by our experiences, culture, and even survival instincts. In this post, I dive into the deeper reasons why we say “yes” when we mean “no” and explore how understanding these patterns can help us break free.
Breaking Free from People-Pleasing: My Journey to Becoming Authentically Me
For years, I let people-pleasing shape my choices—staying quiet when I wanted to speak up, shelving my dreams to keep the peace, and constantly putting others’ needs before my own. It wasn’t until I understood why I was doing it that I could finally start to break the cycle and reconnect with what I truly wanted.