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3 Truths About Boundaries That Will Set You Free

3 Truths About Boundaries That Will Set You Free

In my last post, we uncovered three common myths about boundaries that keep many of us stuck in cycles of over-committing and people-pleasing. Now, it’s time to dive into the truth. In this post, I’m sharing 3 powerful truths about boundaries that will help you move past the discomfort, find freedom, and strengthen your relationships. If you’re ready to step into your power and honor your needs, this one’s for you!

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3 Myths About Boundaries That Keep People Pleasers Stuck

3 Myths About Boundaries That Keep People Pleasers Stuck

Struggling to set boundaries? You’re not alone. For people pleasers, boundaries often feel impossible—they require saying 'no' and standing firm, which can bring up fears of upsetting others or being seen as selfish. In this post, we tackle three common myths about boundaries that keep people pleasers stuck and share practical ways to rewrite those narratives. It’s time to start honoring your needs without guilt.

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The Pendulum of Personal Change

The Pendulum of Personal Change

Breaking free from people-pleasing often feels like swinging between extremes—saying yes to everything or no to everyone. In this post, I explore the concept of the pendulum, sharing actionable steps like checking in with yourself, giving yourself permission, letting go of perfection, and embracing the process of progress over perfection. Learn how to navigate personal change and prioritize yourself without guilt.

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