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3 Truths About Boundaries That Will Set You Free

3 Truths About Boundaries That Will Set You Free

In my last post, we uncovered three common myths about boundaries that keep many of us stuck in cycles of over-committing and people-pleasing. Now, it’s time to dive into the truth. In this post, I’m sharing 3 powerful truths about boundaries that will help you move past the discomfort, find freedom, and strengthen your relationships. If you’re ready to step into your power and honor your needs, this one’s for you!

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3 Myths About Boundaries That Keep People Pleasers Stuck

3 Myths About Boundaries That Keep People Pleasers Stuck

Struggling to set boundaries? You’re not alone. For people pleasers, boundaries often feel impossible—they require saying 'no' and standing firm, which can bring up fears of upsetting others or being seen as selfish. In this post, we tackle three common myths about boundaries that keep people pleasers stuck and share practical ways to rewrite those narratives. It’s time to start honoring your needs without guilt.

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5 Things I Stopped Doing to Protect My Mindset and Improve My Well-Being

5 Things I Stopped Doing to Protect My Mindset and Improve My Well-Being

Discover the 5 things I stopped doing to protect my mindset and improve my well-being. From cutting back on negative influences like the news and true crime to prioritizing sleep and ditching alcohol, this post explores actionable changes that can help you create a more positive and intentional life.

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Breaking Free from People-Pleasing: My Journey to Becoming Authentically Me

Breaking Free from People-Pleasing: My Journey to Becoming Authentically Me

For years, I let people-pleasing shape my choices—staying quiet when I wanted to speak up, shelving my dreams to keep the peace, and constantly putting others’ needs before my own. It wasn’t until I understood why I was doing it that I could finally start to break the cycle and reconnect with what I truly wanted.

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